As a parent, you may always try to make decisions to the greatest advantage of your child.
A good parent doesn't need to be great. Nobody is perfect.
Raising children is one of the hardest and most satisfying jobs on the planet and the one for which you may feel the least prepared.
We all need to be the best parents we can be for our children, yet there is often conflicting advice on the best way to bring up a child who is confident, kind and successful.
It's essential to concentrate on adjusting needs, changing responsibilities and rapidly flipping between the requirements of your child and yourself.
Research reveals to us that to bring up a self-reliant child with high confidence, it is more effective to be authoritative than dictator. You need your child to tune in, regard and trust you instead of fear you. You need to be supportive parents.
Here, Samsidh recommends parents to consider the below points on how to enable your child to grow up to be successful future leaders and achieve their life goals easily.
Improve your child’s self-esteem
Your manner of speaking, your non-verbal communication, and all your expressions are noticed by your children. Your words and activities as a parent influence their creating confidence more than anything else.
Hence, at Samsidh we ensure all our students are encouraged academically as well as in their extracurricular activities by appreciating them with rewards and medals. We also suggest parents to praise your child's achievements which will cause them to feel glad; letting children do things freely will cause them to feel competent and strong. On the other hand, demotivating words or comparing a child horribly and another will cause children to feel worthless.
You are your child’s role model
As human beings, we are programmed to copy other's activities to get them and to make them into our own child, specifically, watch everything carefully what their parents do.
Samsidh suggests parents to be in this way, be the person you need your child to be, show your child, give them positive conduct and frame of mind, have sympathy towards your child's feelings and your child will go with the same pattern. In this way,they show good conduct and personality even in the future.
Take time to communicate with your child
If parents don't set aside some time to communicate, children will start to wonder about our qualities and intentions and whether they have any basis. Parents who reason with their children allow them to understand and learn in a nonjudgmental manner.
At samsidh, we believe that communication with children is essential to improve their overall emotional and academic development. We give personal attention to every child and make sure their concerns and needs are met in their academics on a day to day basis.
Similarly, we also suggest parents to make clear your expectations. If there is an issue, portray it, express your emotions, and welcome your child to find a solution with you. You need to be open to the suggestions of your childs. Let your child be responsible and a problem solver by incorporating them in your decisions.
Adopt a flexible parenting style
Children's surroundings affect their behaviour. So you may have the option to change that behaviour by changing the environment.As your child grows, you'll step by step need to change your child parenting style. There can be chances that what works with your children presently won't fill in too in a year or two.
Teens will generally look less to their parents and more to their friends for good role models. In any case, keep on giving guidance, support, and suitable discipline while permitting your high schooler to win more independence.
No hitting your child
Children who are hit by parents are highly inclined to fight with other children. They are bound to become bullies and to use verbal/physical aggression to explain things. Sometime down the road, they are also bound to bring criminal behavior, worse parent-child relationships, mental health issues, and domestic violence victims or abusers.
Hence, Samsidh suggests you not to hit your child as there are many better other options, for example redirection, reasoning, removing privileges, time-in, and so on.
Adopt a better parenting style and mold your child to be emotionally and mentally strong. In this way, you are helping your child to be good human beings and achieve their life goals.
At Samsidh, we put our every effort to prepare children for life with the best overall approach towards each child to enhance their academic excellence and overall behaviour and attitude towards life.